Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals.

The future is completely open, and we are writing it moment to moment.

The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.

When things fall apart and we're on the verge of we know not what, the test of each of us is to stay on that brink and not concretize.

Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible be found in us.

We don't set out to save the world; we set out to wonder how other people are doing and to reflect on how our actions affect other people's hearts.

Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we're holding back.

Meditation practice isn't about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's about befriending who we are already.

The spiritual journey is not about heaven and finally getting to a place that's really swell.

The more we witness our emotional reactions and understand how they work, the easier it is to refrain.

The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.

Hope and fear come from feeling that we lack something; they come from a sense of poverty. We can't simply relax with ourselves. We hold on to hope, and hope robs us of the present moment.

We think that the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.

Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts.

The essence of bravery is being without self-deception.

Whatever is happening is the path to enlightenment.

Rather than letting our negativity get the better of us, we could acknowledge that right now we feel like a piece of shit and not be squeamish about taking a good look.

As long as our orientation is toward perfection or success, we will never learn about unconditional friendship with ourselves, nor will we find compassion.

If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.

The root of suffering is resisting the certainty that no matter what the circumstances, uncertainty is all we truly have.